Wife left after 17 years of marriage. Nothing foreshadowed ...
“On January 28 my wife left me. Nothing foreshadowed this. I sat on the couch, got up, left the house and I never saw her again. Just like that, from a flat place. 15-year-old son stayed with me. After a while she showed up
in another city two thousand kilometers away, with which nothing connected us. We lived together for 17 years.
It was not the first time she threw such things away, and at first I did not attach importance to this trick. A couple of weeks earlier, we had a little quarrel, and I figured that she would break the comedy again, unleashing another nishtyaki. But it was all very serious.
I called, but no one answered me. I started to write to the vibe, but the messages remained unread. Then I asked my son: “Where is mom?” He replied that mom had left.
I climbed into the closet and found that there were no clothes — only what she did not wear. I reached into the safe and saw that there were no documents - neither her passports, nor the car, nor the apartment. And then I ohrenel.
It turns out that the person to whom I gave half my life, to whom I gave everything that I had and all myself, whom I believed more than myself and in which I was 146% sure - I acted extremely cynically and meanly with me. It was such a blow that I barely made it.
I went through all the stages - anger, denial, bargaining, depression, acceptance. Depression dragged on. And in the arms - a teenage son in the senior class, who passes the OGE. It was the most difficult. I could not even feed him, because I did not just not know how to cook anything harder than fried eggs. But I persevered. And my son helped me with this.
Now, six months later, when everything calmed down, I look at these events differently. I am even glad that everything happened exactly this way - that which we had before, could not be called a relationship in principle. And I am glad that I still managed to raise a wonderful guy who helped me in difficult times.
I'm not old yet and I will have to create a new family. But I don’t know how it will turn out taking into account such a sad experience. I hope not all women are so mean, cynical and prudent, but hope, frankly, weak. More women, I do not trust. None."
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